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I just finished the book, Look Again: The Power of Noticing What Was Always There by Tali Sharot and Cass R. Sunstein.
This book discusses how we habituate in life.
There is evidence that we start to habituate to a tropical vacation within 43 hours!
Pleasure results from incomplete and intermittent satisfaction of desires
Use small brakes from habits (create changes) to minimize habituation
Habit and routine are anti-aphrodisiacs - more time apart can increase interest.
Busy bodies tend to Explore and Exploiters tend to Hunt
Busy buddies are more likely to be sensation seekers or explorers
Don't repeat falsehoods even to debunk them as the repetition makes people habituate to believing it in the first place
The more often we face risk the less risky it seems to us this is risk habituation (I thought about motorcycle riding vs airplane flying)
To improve safety, every now and then, mix things up to help reduce the risk desensitization and de-habituation.
You are always trying to predict what is going to happen next
"Reward prediction errors consist of the differences between received and predicted rewards. They are crucial for basic forms of learning about rewards and make us strive for more rewards—an evolutionary beneficial trait. Most dopamine neurons in the midbrain of humans, monkeys, and rodents signal a reward prediction error; they are activated by more reward than predicted (positive prediction error), remain at baseline activity for fully predicted rewards, and show depressed activity with less reward than predicted (negative prediction error)." 1
The difference between expectations and outcomes are prediction errors.
Positive or negative prediction errors result with emotional connotations:
Create some happiness by minimizing your negative prediction errors.
We noticed what is surprisingly different not what we are used to.
“Nothing in life is as important as you think it is, while you are thinking about it” ― Daniel Kahneman, Thinking, Fast and Slow
[1] Schultz W. Dopamine reward prediction error coding. Dialogues Clin Neurosci. 2016 Mar;18(1):23-32. doi: 10.31887/DCNS.2016.18.1/wschultz. PMID: 27069377; PMCID: PMC4826767.